10:09:00 AM
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After 21 years of marriage, my wife wanted me to take another woman out to dinner and a movie.
She said, "I love you but I know this other woman loves you and would love to spend some time with you."
The other woman that my wife wanted me to visit was my MOTHER, who has been a widow for 19 years, but the demands of my work and my three children had made it possible to visit her only occasionally.
That night I called to invite her to go out for dinner and a movie.
"What's wrong, are you well," she asked? My mother is the type of woman who suspects that a late night call or a surprise invitation is a sign of bad news.
"I thought that it would be pleasant to be with you," I responded. " Just the two of us.."
She thought about it for a moment, and then said, "I would like that very much."
That Friday after work, as I drove over to pick her up I was a bit nervous. When I arrived at her house, I noticed that she, too, seemed to be nervous about our date. She waited in the door with her coat on. She had curled her hair and was wearing the dress that she had worn to celebrate her last wedding anniversary.
She smiled from a face that was as radiant as an angel's.
"I told my friends that I was going to go out with my son, and they were impressed, "she said, as she got into the car. "They can't wait to hear about our meeting".
We went to a restaurant that, although not elegant, was very nice and cozy. My mother took my arm as if she were the First Lady. After we sat down,
I had to read the menu. Large print. Half way through the entries, I lifted my eyes and saw Mom sitting there staring at me. A nostalgic smile was on her lips.
"It was I who used to have to read the menu when you were small," she said.
"Then it's time that you relax and let me return the favor," I responded.
During the dinner, we had an agreeable conversation - nothing extraordinary, but catching up on recent events of each other's life. We talked so much that we missed the movie.
As we arrived at her house later, she said, "I'll go out with you again, but only if you let me invite you." I agreed.
"How was your dinner date ?" asked my wife when I got home. "Very nice. Much more so than I could have imagined," I answered.
A few days later, my mother died of a massive heart attack. It happened so suddenly that I did to do anything for her.
Some time later, I received an envelope with a copy of a restaurant receipt from the same place mother and I had dined.
An attached note said: "I paid this bill in advance. I wasn't sure that I could be there; but nevertheless, I paid for two plates - one for you and the other for your wife. You will never know what that night meant for me.. I love you, son."
At that moment, I understood the importance of saying in time: " I LOVE YOU!" and to give our loved ones the time that they deserve.
Nothing in life is more important than God and your family. Give them the time they deserve, because these things cannot be put off till "some other time."
9:18:00 AM
Peak
Today's Scripture
"Just as the rain and snow descend from the skies and don't go back until they've watered the earth, making things grow and blossom…so will the words that come out My mouth not come back empty-handed. They'll do the work I sent them to do" (Isaiah 55:10-11, Message).
Today's Word from Joel and Victoria
Rain is symbolic of God's blessing, favor, and refreshing. His Word is like rain that causes us to flourish and blossom in every area of life. The scripture says we should live like a well-watered garden, vibrant and growing. We should live under God's cloud of blessing. How do we do that? In the natural, a cloud is formed when moisture vapors rise up from the earth into the atmosphere. Eventually, the moisture is so abundant that the rain begins to fall. In the same way, your praise is like the invisible vapors that rise up to heaven and form a cloud. Eventually, your praise will activate an outpouring of God's blessing, favor, and provision in your life. Do you feel like you are in a dry season? Begin to praise and thank God that He is bringing you through to a place of refreshing. Magnify and bless Him for His goodness in your life. As you turn up your praise, God will turn up the rain and you will experience His abundant outpouring. You'll experience His blessing and provision and live as an overcomer in every area of your life.
A Prayer for Today
Heavenly Father, today I choose to bless and honor You. Thank You for this day. Thank You for giving me life. Thank you for making me new. Thank you for saving me and filling me with Your peace and joy. Rain on me today. In Jesus' name, Amen.
Joel Osteen Ministries
9:10:00 AM
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Nats : Kasihilah istrimu seperti dirimu sendiri dan istri hendaklah menghormati suaminya (Efesus 5:33)
Bacaan : Efesus 5:22-33
Apakah tujuan orang menikah? Supaya bahagia? Bagaimana jika tidak bahagia? Banyak pasangan yang hidupnya susah setelah menikah. Ada yang kesulitan menghadapi karakter pasangannya yang sulit diubah. Akibatnya sering cekcok. Ada yang susah karena anaknya autis atau cacat mental. Yang lainnya terus-menerus dihadapkan pada musibah. Jika visi pernikahan Anda cuma demi mengejar kebahagiaan, bisa jadi Anda kecewa!
Firman Tuhan memandang pernikahan lebih sebagai proses pembentukan atau pendewasaan. Istri diminta "tunduk", artinya belajar menghargai kepemimpinan suami. Dengan merendahkan diri, istri dapat menjaga harga diri suaminya. Begitu pula suami diminta belajar mengasihi istri seperti merawat tubuhnya sendiri. Bahkan seperti Kristus mengasihi jemaat (ayat 25,29,32). Di zaman itu, budaya Romawi menempatkan suami sebagai figur kepala keluarga dengan kuasa tak terbatas. Lumrah jika suami bersikap sebagai tuan yang minta dilayani. Namun, para suami kristiani tidak boleh begitu. Mereka harus "mengasuh dan merawat" istri (ayat 28,29). Artinya menyediakan waktu dan perhatian yang cukup. Rupanya, untuk mewujudkan pernikahan kristiani dibutuhkan penyangkalan diri dari kedua pihak. Menikah ibarat sekolah, yang melaluinya sifat-sifat kita dibentuk.
Dan, proses pembentukan itu menyakitkan! Gary Thomas, pengarang buku Sacred Marriage (Pernikahan yang Kudus), berkata: "Tuhan merancang pernikahan untuk membuat Anda suci, lebih daripada membuat Anda bahagia." Kebahagiaan pernikahan adalah buah atau hadiah dari perjuangan menyangkal diri. Ia tak akan datang sendiri -JTI
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